Two things drive 90% of human emotions. Financial and relationships. They are for most people the two greatest fears. Fear of loss of control which is frightening and confronting. And fear of loneliness.
I sadly, relationships were never meant to relieve loneliness. Their intention was and always will be love which is described as support and challenge. In this PDF deck, designed for the 30 day challenge on relationship day, you might find some interesting material for your own review.